What will u do if your husband fastens you while having sex?

Why do you allow him to do these things? Unless he's tackling you and tying you up against your will (which is rape and you should contact the authorities), you can certainly stop any of this at any time by pushing him away, or simply saying no. Then, if he continues to try this kind of thing, you simply refuse to have sex until it's safe and comfortable for both of you.